Love in the time of COVID-19 - what you need to know

Let's get straight into it. What does COVID-19 mean for your wedding?

Well the brilliant news is you can still have a wonderful personalised wedding ceremony.


I am not a legal authority on the rules and regulations but have provided a few basic points below to help guide you:


In Northern Ireland the guidelines have changed a few times with regards to maximum numbers for indoor and outdoor settings. It's hard to keep up and I'm conscious of not having out of date information on my site so the first port of call is to double check with your venue as your numbers and allowances will be dependant on what your venue decides based on their risk assessment. Have a chat with your point of contact and start a conversation with them about what your options are.

If you are thinking about getting your own home or garden licensed (yes, this is a thing!) you'll need to apply for a temporary license through your council. It's a good alternative but does require a bit of work your end. Leave yourself plenty of time to explore if this is the right option for you.


As of 10th July 2020 updated guidelines were released which are helpful. You can read them here . 

Measuring the risk

So you've got your venue booked and you've booked me as your celebrant - fantastic!


Understandably you have some questions about safety and how it's all going to work. As part of our in depth chat I'll discuss directly with you in line with the allowances from your venue about all the steps we can take to measure any perceived and potential risk. Your venue will have performed a risk assessment and so I'll check in with them to make sure that the ceremony follows their guidelines and requirements. In addition to that I'll risk asses your ceremony to make sure that I've considered elements within it to minimise those risks. For example:

I'll have individual pens ready for signing the register (all sanitised beforehand) 

Items will not be passed around the group to minimise the chance of any transference 

I'll be beside you for more of the ceremony than in the centre to make sure that I'm speaking beside you where possible. 

Where we are all becoming more used to social distancing and changed habits I'll make sure to incorporate all of these things sensitively into your ceremony so that you don't even notice them. 

I'll check in with you regularly before the ceremony to ensure that I let you know that I have no symptoms and that I haven't been in contact with anyone with symptoms. 

All these steps are to re-assure and to let you know that I take everyones health and well being seriously. They will NOT however define your ceremony. Your wedding ceremony will be an incredible and happy experience.

So it will still feel special?


The brilliant thing about humanist ceremonies (well, one of the many brilliant things) is that they allow for a huge amount of flexibility and creativity. By creating a ceremony with these needs in mind I'll make sure that any of these needs are seamlessly built in. No one wants a big flashing sign about  COVID in their wedding or for it to be the elephant in the room. 

With my background in creating for theatre I thrive off of making different needs a success and I'll put all my skills and energy into doing that for you. So when you look back on your wedding ceremony you just remember how brilliant it was, not that you felt you had to make any compromises that you weren't happy with.

So, what are you waiting for? Get in touch :)

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